事情無法兼顧的時候
1. 照顧自己。要幫助別人，不一定得犧牲自己。
2，盡力就好。只要盡力就好，不必「盡其在我」。
你必须记住
*慈悲並不是要你跟著悲苦的人一起悲慘。
*如果你一直去滿足別人，你將會對別人產生不滿。
*犧牲享受，也別忘了享受犧牲。
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
嘘！
嘘！别告诉别人
大多数人想知道的事，大都是不关他们的事。
罗斯福当美国总统之前，曾在海军担任要职。一天，有位朋友向他打听有关海军在加勒比海建立潜艇基地的计划。这可犯了罗斯福的禁忌。不遏他很快就想出了要如何应付。
罗斯福故意神秘地向四周看了看，然后才压低声音问道：「对这件事你能绝对保守秘密吗？」
「当然能！」朋友拍拍胸脯，毫不含糊地说。
罗斯福微微一笑，紧接着说：「那么，我也能。」
那位朋友明白了罗斯福的意思，两人相视不禁哈哈大笑。
如果你想很快传播一件事，就说：「我告诉你一件事，你千万不要告诉别人。」我想，不出多久就会很快地传开。
只要有第三者知道，那就不再是秘密了 ，
因为你的朋友也有朋友，既然你自己都说出来了 ，那么他说说又何妨？
大多数人想知道的事，大都是不关他们的事。
罗斯福当美国总统之前，曾在海军担任要职。一天，有位朋友向他打听有关海军在加勒比海建立潜艇基地的计划。这可犯了罗斯福的禁忌。不遏他很快就想出了要如何应付。
罗斯福故意神秘地向四周看了看，然后才压低声音问道：「对这件事你能绝对保守秘密吗？」
「当然能！」朋友拍拍胸脯，毫不含糊地说。
罗斯福微微一笑，紧接着说：「那么，我也能。」
那位朋友明白了罗斯福的意思，两人相视不禁哈哈大笑。
如果你想很快传播一件事，就说：「我告诉你一件事，你千万不要告诉别人。」我想，不出多久就会很快地传开。
只要有第三者知道，那就不再是秘密了 ，
因为你的朋友也有朋友，既然你自己都说出来了 ，那么他说说又何妨？
Sunday, October 31, 2010
环游世界过的猪还是猪
去过巴黎的猪还是猪
你就是现在的你，因为这是你心甘情愿的。如果你想有所不同，自然会从现在开始力圆改变
有一次，有个下等士官向姜志意大帝抱怨：「我跟着你出生入死，东征西讨，别人都升了将军，只有我还在当小兵。」
姜志意大帝指着一匹马，语重心长的说：「这匹马也跟着我出生入死、东征西讨，但牠现在还是一匹马啊！」
去过巴黎的猪还是一头猪，剪掉尾巴的狗还是一只狗。
重点不在于你去过哪里、做过什么，或做了多久，而是你的本质、内涵决定自己是否受人肯定。
你就是现在的你，因为这是你心甘情愿的。如果你想有所不同，自然会从现在开始力圆改变
有一次，有个下等士官向姜志意大帝抱怨：「我跟着你出生入死，东征西讨，别人都升了将军，只有我还在当小兵。」
姜志意大帝指着一匹马，语重心长的说：「这匹马也跟着我出生入死、东征西讨，但牠现在还是一匹马啊！」
去过巴黎的猪还是一头猪，剪掉尾巴的狗还是一只狗。
重点不在于你去过哪里、做过什么，或做了多久，而是你的本质、内涵决定自己是否受人肯定。
削足适履
削足适履
照着别人的尺寸所缝制的衣甩，绝不可能完全合身，唯有依照自己的身材量制的衣服才会贴身
有个男子走进一家成衣店，售货员拚命鼓吹他买下一套不合身的衣服
「但是这套衣服不合身。」这名男子说，「左肩太高了 。」
「那么把你的左肩耸高一点，」
「好，但左臀又太突出了 。」
「那么就把右臀也翘高一点。」
「好，但左裤管又太短了 。」
「你的左膝可以稍微弩一下。」
最后，他决定买下这套衣服，并且穿着出去。有两名妇人看见了 ，其中一个说：「可怜，长得那么畸形。」
「真的好可怜，」另一名妇人说，「但你瞧，那套衣服多么合身。」
我们常觉得自己跟许多人都很「合得来」，而没有察觉我们大都是为了配合别人而放弃了自己的想法和观点。
你也就像这名男子一样，经常扭曲自己来迎合别人吗？
p/s : 唉，我就是这种人，可悲可悲！！！
（现在开始在学如何改变，希望能成功）
照着别人的尺寸所缝制的衣甩，绝不可能完全合身，唯有依照自己的身材量制的衣服才会贴身
有个男子走进一家成衣店，售货员拚命鼓吹他买下一套不合身的衣服
「但是这套衣服不合身。」这名男子说，「左肩太高了 。」
「那么把你的左肩耸高一点，」
「好，但左臀又太突出了 。」
「那么就把右臀也翘高一点。」
「好，但左裤管又太短了 。」
「你的左膝可以稍微弩一下。」
最后，他决定买下这套衣服，并且穿着出去。有两名妇人看见了 ，其中一个说：「可怜，长得那么畸形。」
「真的好可怜，」另一名妇人说，「但你瞧，那套衣服多么合身。」
我们常觉得自己跟许多人都很「合得来」，而没有察觉我们大都是为了配合别人而放弃了自己的想法和观点。
你也就像这名男子一样，经常扭曲自己来迎合别人吗？
Dear YX/陶仙, how about you ?
I hope you're not, you know, mian qiang shi mei tou xing fu de.
p/s : 唉，我就是这种人，可悲可悲！！！
（现在开始在学如何改变，希望能成功）
Thursday, October 28, 2010
Not yet verify this article, just be careful ok.
在KL过去的5天，3个女人不约而同的到医院诊疗。全部都出现同样的病症：发烧，发冷，呕吐，然后肌肉萎缩，瘫痪, 到最后死去
他们没有特别的创伤。研究报考显示，他们的血液里有毒性。这3个女人各不相识,也没有共同点
过后才发现，他们都有到过Jalan Kuchai Lama的一家餐厅用餐。那家餐厅现在已被卫生局全面封锁了。食物，食水，冷气，统统都检验过，没有任何的发现。
直到有一天，那个餐厅的女服务员也得到同样的症状。他告诉医生，她之前在放假，回来拿支票，她没有在哪里吃喝，只是有用洗手间。
过后，他们在洗手间的坐厕盘下，找到一个小种的蜘蛛。那蜘蛛身上有带双纹。这蜘蛛具有很毒的毒性，要几天才出现中毒的症状。这蜘蛛喜欢隐藏在冷，暗，潮湿，厕所坐盘底下刚好就是它们作息的地方。
过后几天，一名JB的律师也遭遇到同样的症状。在临死前，他告诉医生说：他因做生意要在印尼起飞，在新加坡转机。在没有回到自己的家前，他没曾到过那家餐厅，只不过，他有像那3个女人的症状，他的右屁股有被东西刺伤的痕迹。
调查显示，这飞机是从原本的印度起飞。 CAB命令全印度航空搜索全部飞机的厕所，才发现到有其中4架来至不同飞机的厕所里头有着这蜘蛛的巢。
现在相信，这蜘蛛已经蔓延到世界各地。所以，要上公共厕所的人士要小心，打开坐厕的盖，检查有没有这类型的蜘蛛。
请分享这文章，即可以救救别人，也可以救救自己的安全。
Not yet verify this article, just be careful ok.
Please pay attention to this article. It is of utmost importance.
Three women in KL turned up at hospitals over a 5-day period,
all with the same symptoms - fever, chills, vomiting, followed by muscular collapse, paralysis and finally,death.
There were no outward signs of trauma. Autopsy results showed toxicity in the blood. These women did not know each other, and seemed to have nothing in common.
It was discovered, however, that they had all visited a same restaurant along Jalan Kuchai Lama within days of their deaths. The health department descended on the restaurant, shutting it down. The food, water and air conditioning were all inspected and tested, to no avail.
The big break came when a waitress at the restaurant was rushed to the hospital with similar symptoms. She told doctors that she had been on vacation, and had only went to the restaurant to pick up her check. She did not eat or drink while she was there, but had used the restroom.
That is when one toxicologist, remembering an article he had read, drove up to the restaurant, went into the restroom and lifted the toilet seat. Under the seat, out of normal view, was a small spider. The spider was captured and brought back to the lab,where it was determined to be the Two-Striped Telamonia (Telamonia dimidiata), so named because of its reddened flesh color. This spider's venom is extremely toxic but can take several days to take effect. They live in cold, dark, damp climates, and toilet rims provide just the right atmosphere.
Several days later, a lawyer from JB showed up at a hospital emergency room.. Before his death, he told the doctor that he had been away on business, had taken a flight from Indonesia , changing planes in Singapore , before returning home. He did not visit the restaurant while there. He did, as did all of the other victims, have what was determined to be a puncture wound, on his right buttock.
Investigators discovered that the flight he was on had originated in India .. The Civilian Aeronautics Board (CAB) ordered an immediate inspection of the toilets of all flights from India , and discovered the Two-Striped Telamonia (Telamonia dimidiata) spider's nests on four different planes!
It is now believed that these spiders can be anywhere in the country. So please, before you use a public toilet, lift the seat to check for spiders.
It can save your life! And please pass this on to everyone you care about.
他们没有特别的创伤。研究报考显示，他们的血液里有毒性。这3个女人各不相识,也没有共同点
过后才发现，他们都有到过Jalan Kuchai Lama的一家餐厅用餐。那家餐厅现在已被卫生局全面封锁了。食物，食水，冷气，统统都检验过，没有任何的发现。
直到有一天，那个餐厅的女服务员也得到同样的症状。他告诉医生，她之前在放假，回来拿支票，她没有在哪里吃喝，只是有用洗手间。
过后，他们在洗手间的坐厕盘下，找到一个小种的蜘蛛。那蜘蛛身上有带双纹。这蜘蛛具有很毒的毒性，要几天才出现中毒的症状。这蜘蛛喜欢隐藏在冷，暗，潮湿，厕所坐盘底下刚好就是它们作息的地方。
过后几天，一名JB的律师也遭遇到同样的症状。在临死前，他告诉医生说：他因做生意要在印尼起飞，在新加坡转机。在没有回到自己的家前，他没曾到过那家餐厅，只不过，他有像那3个女人的症状，他的右屁股有被东西刺伤的痕迹。
调查显示，这飞机是从原本的印度起飞。 CAB命令全印度航空搜索全部飞机的厕所，才发现到有其中4架来至不同飞机的厕所里头有着这蜘蛛的巢。
现在相信，这蜘蛛已经蔓延到世界各地。所以，要上公共厕所的人士要小心，打开坐厕的盖，检查有没有这类型的蜘蛛。
请分享这文章，即可以救救别人，也可以救救自己的安全。
Not yet verify this article, just be careful ok.
Please pay attention to this article. It is of utmost importance.
Three women in KL turned up at hospitals over a 5-day period,
all with the same symptoms - fever, chills, vomiting, followed by muscular collapse, paralysis and finally,death.
There were no outward signs of trauma. Autopsy results showed toxicity in the blood. These women did not know each other, and seemed to have nothing in common.
It was discovered, however, that they had all visited a same restaurant along Jalan Kuchai Lama within days of their deaths. The health department descended on the restaurant, shutting it down. The food, water and air conditioning were all inspected and tested, to no avail.
The big break came when a waitress at the restaurant was rushed to the hospital with similar symptoms. She told doctors that she had been on vacation, and had only went to the restaurant to pick up her check. She did not eat or drink while she was there, but had used the restroom.
That is when one toxicologist, remembering an article he had read, drove up to the restaurant, went into the restroom and lifted the toilet seat. Under the seat, out of normal view, was a small spider. The spider was captured and brought back to the lab,where it was determined to be the Two-Striped Telamonia (Telamonia dimidiata), so named because of its reddened flesh color. This spider's venom is extremely toxic but can take several days to take effect. They live in cold, dark, damp climates, and toilet rims provide just the right atmosphere.
Several days later, a lawyer from JB showed up at a hospital emergency room.. Before his death, he told the doctor that he had been away on business, had taken a flight from Indonesia , changing planes in Singapore , before returning home. He did not visit the restaurant while there. He did, as did all of the other victims, have what was determined to be a puncture wound, on his right buttock.
Investigators discovered that the flight he was on had originated in India .. The Civilian Aeronautics Board (CAB) ordered an immediate inspection of the toilets of all flights from India , and discovered the Two-Striped Telamonia (Telamonia dimidiata) spider's nests on four different planes!
It is now believed that these spiders can be anywhere in the country. So please, before you use a public toilet, lift the seat to check for spiders.
It can save your life! And please pass this on to everyone you care about.
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
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